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The First Steps

January 7th, 2009

Slowly but surely, we’re getting on with our new life.

Michael’s mommy is recovering. Her new medications may be helping the crucial problem of fending off plaque buildup in her arteries, but they’re also making her feel like she’s got a bad case of restless leg stomach flu. With a side of insomnia.

Meanwhile, we’re scouring the metro area looking for actual food.

Let me explain.

One of the things we have learned, as a result of this surprise, is that our biggest enemy in the fight for health is the food supply. And not just from restaurants, but from the supermarket. If you’re not extremely careful and wise in your selections, you will load your grocery cart up with more calories than you’ll ever need, and less nutrition than you’d believe.

Even things promising a “healthy” option aren’t necessarily so, since nearly every pre-packaged, processed food is overrun with High Fructose Corn Syrup, sodium and myriad unpronounceable, mysterious additives.

And restaurants have their part in the comestible chaos that reigns out there. Portion sizes are the biggest problem. Since the 1970s, portions have nearly doubled. And not just with the food, with the sugar-drenched drinks as well. Remember when a large soft drink at McDonald’s was about 20 ounces? Between then and now, it swelled up to 42 ounces. Yikes.

All this to say we’ve discovered that the deck was stacked against us. We’re thwarted at every turn.

But we’ve learned our lesson. Our eyes are wide open now, and we know where to steer to find the things that are proper to eat, to maximize nutrition while providing the proper caloric intake for dad, mom and kids.

I’ve long said that I want to be around to see my kids grow up and have children of their own (if for no other reason, than so I can have the satisfaction of seeing them go through what their mom and I go through every day; and I hope Michael has twins). But I very likely would not have made it that far if we’d kept up our standard dietary habits. Every day I’d wake up tired, run down, sore and wishing I could just take a break for a while.

Since we’ve started eating right, I feel ten years younger and a whole lot more alive. I feel like there’s hope for my wife and me to reach our golden wedding anniversary, which is still 45 years in the future.

So watch this space. Every Monday I shall present facts and recipes for a healthier lifestyle. In between time, of course, you’ll be subjected to the usual rambling palaver.

11 Responses to “The First Steps”

  1. Melisa with one S

    Awesome! Looking forward to the facts & recipes AND the usual rambling palaver. :)

  2. Chuck

    You aren’t kidding about being thwarted at every turn. Our society thrives on excess and food is just another example of this.

    It’s great to read that you’re already feeling the benefits of eating better. Isn’t it amazing how quickly the body responds when given the proper fuel?

    Good good news! Keep it up gang!

  3. Tom

    @Melisa – good deal! I’ll do my best to live up to the hype I’ve just spewed out there.

    @Chuck – totally amazing. You can lose weight and feel better by making such a small change, and you don’t have to starve.

  4. Weaselmomma

    My family is the pickiest of eaters. If you find something healthy and yummy without any sauces or gravies, tofu or weird stuff, please post it. I could use more energy.

  5. nonna

    comestible – anything edible

    no fair using words i have to look up! i read A LOT and have never heard that word before. lol

    good for you guys. can’t wait to see your suggestions. i have one for ya. fiber! Nature’s Own Double Fiber Wheat bread is my new bestest friend. it has 5 grams of dietary fiber in each slice!

  6. Tom

    @Weaselmomma – consider it done. I’ve got an extremely picky bunch myself, but 3 out of 4 kids LOVE a particular all-vegetable dish we’ve had a few times lately.

  7. Tom

    @nonna – I’ll check that one out! Thanks!

  8. NukeDad

    I’m stealing “comestible” when Big Word Wednesday makes it’s reappearance next week; with full credit to you; of course. Glad to see you guys are on the right road. I’ll be checking in to get some pointers.

  9. Tom

    Truth be told, I stole “comestible” from Plankton on SpongeBob. I thought it was a nice couplet for “chaos.” Hurray for the return of BWW!

  10. seashore subjects

    ~Hello, I came by from weaselville. My family has also struggled (& still do) with healthy eating, good luck to you and your family.

  11. Tom

    Thank you! It’s not easy to do well, given the environment. My hope is to help folks navigate.

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Michael is the surprise son of a second-time married couple who, having daughters from their respective previous marriages, believed they were through having kids. He's a red-headed ball of fire who hit the ground running and hasn't stopped to take a breath since. Every day he gives me new ways to learn patience, resourcefulness, firmness and love by providing intense training under live fire conditions.

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