Comments on: The First Day

By: seashore

seashore — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 11:47:11 +0000

Wow. That is so scary, especially for your wife, since you were out of it at the time and probably not scared at all. So glad to hear that you were released and there were no major issues.

Change is hard and takes time to stick, so I hope you aren’t beating yourself up too much.

(MD) Not to worry, I’m not beating myself up. I’m just more determined than ever.

By: Momo Fali

Momo Fali — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 02:05:18 +0000

I’m so sorry it took this scary episode to make you change your ways, but this scary episode is going to make me change mine as well. I’m with you, Tom. I’m climbing on board.

(MD) Glad to have you on board. Maybe we should turn this into a regular, tracked thing. I’m not sure everyone’s willing to proffer up their stats, but we can at least keep each other accountable in some regard. I’m thinking I’ll post my progress on a weekly basis and everyone can chime in as they feel led.

By: Bob

Bob — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 14:56:17 +0000

Tom! Glad to hear you are ok.. We need to chat, my friend. Maybe we can start a little long-distance health competition!! I am just about exactly where you are. Take care of yourself!! B

(MD) Hey, Bob! Thanks for checking in. So you’re ready to start making the change? We should set goals and do the competition just like you said. I’ll call you so we can set up the details.

By: ann

ann — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 14:09:20 +0000

The arty grandma does not need to do any chiding I can see but I did have one thought. I am reminded of Winston Churchill who said:

“most people stumble over the truth and get up and walk off as if nothing had happened.”

Hopefully, stumbling in the bathroom without a concussion or other heinous crime
will be sufficient proof the SOMETHING HAS HAPPENED!!!

I rest my case. Love, MOM

(MD) I might not have gotten a concussion, but I have plenty of soreness to keep me reminded for a while.

By: john cave osborne

john cave osborne — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 01:31:58 +0000

holy cow. i kept catching myself wanting to speed ahead and make sure you were “okay.”

anything i could possibly say would sound trite, but i’ll start with this: i will be praying for you and for your resolve. from the words you (very eloquently) used, i can tell that you’re serious about making a few changes. i’m proud of you and send you good vibes from afar.

may the changes you make be permanent ones–as well as ones that bring you even more fulfillment in a life that seems to this outsider to be one that is very well lived.

on a lighter note, i think we all know the moral to this story. never trust anything that is the color periwinkle.

(MD) Thanks for the prayers, I really appreciate that. We absolutely must make the change for everyone’s sake. As for colors… I’ve always been a little suspicious of periwinkle. So far, though, chartreuse has never let me down.

By: WeaselMomma

WeaselMomma — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 00:59:05 +0000

I’m trying to catch my breath here. I’m glad that you are okay, but that was kind of scary on this end. I couldn’t imagine how it must have felt to you and your wife. You hinted that you were putting out a post full of excitement today, but I never dreamed it was this.
Did the doc change up your medication? Or is it better exercise to get up 2-3 times a night and trek to the bathroom, plus the added benefit of less pressure in the morning?

(MD) You know, maybe you’re on to something: the bathroom marathon probably would help me shed a few pounds. Maybe there’s something to that whole ‘drink more water’ thing.

By: Grandma K.

Grandma K. — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 21:20:41 +0000

Tom, that is really scarey. Walk. You and Michael’s Mommy need to take 30 minutes each day and walk. Michael has a strolller so you can take him. When the weather is lousy go to the mall and walk the course inside. You are so generous with making time for the kids. Please make time for yourself.
You and Michael’s Mommy are both really good cooks I am sure you can come up with delicious Mediterranean meals!

(MD) It’s true, we could certainly take him on walks with us, and we could do it a whole lot more often than we have.

By: Otter

Otter — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 19:28:42 +0000

I am glad you are home and doing ok. Best of luck on heading toward health.

(MD) Thanks, Otter. I appreciate that.

By: Antique Mommy

Antique Mommy — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 18:25:35 +0000

Oh Tom you scare me. Y'all need to take care of yourselves, that little boy needs his mommy and daddy. (MD) I scared myself. And you're absolutely right... I do need to take care of myself for his sake.