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I really hate plumbing

Today is my birthday. Henry Ford, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Lisa Kudrow and Alton Brown share today as a birthday as well.

But I’ll bet none of them came in from their backyards sopping wet at 7:05 this morning like I did.

Because I hate plumbing, and it hates me. I informed my wife that I’m seriously considering shutting off our service, digging a nice deep well and getting a good, sturdy bucket to fetch water in; though I’m certain the homeowners association would frown upon that plan.

Last week our lawn sprinklers suddenly came alive. Evidently our backflow testing service had come out and turned the valves back on, and since the automatic timer was already running, they sprinklers had all they needed to start spouting early one Monday morning. Michael was thrilled, of course.

But when I saw one of the sprinkler heads in the back yard explode like a depth charge and then continually issue this thick rope of water which laid the grass blades flat along its short arc of travel, I knew I was in for trouble.

This weekend I got a new sprinkler head. “Replaces all brands! No key required! Just screw it in and it’s ready,” the glossy copy read on the outside of the sprinkler head I was holding. Promises, promises.

The instructions underneath the wrapping were almost as useless, showing some convoluted steps for rotating the head while pushing down and inserting a screwdriver into some orifice on the side.

And then of course I had to remove the old head, which involved the collapse of the surrounding dirt and gravel into the pipe, requiring me to do a whole lot more digging just to get my fat hands into the work and pluck rocks out of the pipe with needle nose pliers.

The sprinkler screwed in okay, and apparently lined up correctly, so I paid it no more thought. “I’ll adjust the direction and distance when it comes on next Monday morning,” I said.

Sure.

Fast forward to this morning. I was just putting away my breakfast time reading material when I heard the sprinklers come on. “The sprinklers!” I thought. “I need to get out there and adjust that new head!”

Precisely at that moment two plastic champagne flutes toppled into my hands, forcing me to deal with carefully putting them back into the cabinet. I knew that that extra bit of impeccably-timed cosmic distraction meant that there was trouble in the back, and that new sprinkler was doing something very bad.

I was right.

When I got outside, the new sprinkler was merrily firing a liquid laser beam over the fence and into the neighbor’s backyard, probably reaching about 30 feet over. I hurriedly ran to the garage to get the screwdriver I knew I’d need.

Sensing my urgency, our lovely little kitty assumed that I was in a hurry to get her some canned cat food, so naturally she ran in front of me and intertwined my ankles.

“Get out of the way, cat!” I bellowed, stepping over her and reaching for the garage door.

I grabbed a convenient screwdriver and ran to the backyard. Meanwhile the sprinkler was facing entirely backwards, firing its death ray into the deck, sending up a fan spray that soaked me thoroughly before I’d even reached the grass.

I reached down and stuck the screwdriver into the adjustment screw, hoping to tone down the intensity of the blast. No, this screw was the adjustment for the travel distance.

The only thing I was able to adjust with this screw was the direction of the beam. I was faced with choosing which neighbor would receive the aqueous cannonade.

There was one other screw adjustment, and I was pretty sure this was the one to adjust the distance of the blast. Unfortunately, the screwdriver that I’d chosen was too large to fit. I was helpless to do anything to staunch the flow.

There was a pie-pan nearby, one my wife had brought out in hopes of warding birds off of the blueberry bush. I held it in front of the water beam, and was instantly rewarded with a return spray in the face.

I dropped that and picked up a short piece of two-by-four that was on a nearby scrap pile. This effectively blocked the flow, but I soon realized that I would need to remain here holding this lumber in front of a moving stream of water for the next ten minutes.

While I was thinking, one of the other sprinklers had moved around into position and shot me square in the back. I repositioned, and was hit from the other side by the sprinkler in the corner.

Hopelessly pinned down in a cross-fire, I abandoned my post and ran through the barrage of watery artillery (in slow motion, I think) and headed out the gate to get to the valve controls.

I shut off the power and instantly the sprinklers died.

Problem solved for now…

I’m not sure if I want to turn them back on, ever.

I asked for it

It’s morning rush time. Michael is going to summer camp today, and mom is packing his lunch. Daddy is staying clear of the operation, focusing on making coffee instead.

Mommy has included two fruits, a vegetable, a drink, slices of ham, two PB&J sandwich halves cut into dinosaur shapes, and is now puzzling over which crunchy item to add.

She finds a bag of pretzel chips (like pretzels, but flat – it’s all of the good, shiny exterior and very little of the boring, pithy interior) and pulls one out.

Mommy: “Michael, do you like pretzel chips?”

Michael: (head down, concentrating intently on his video game, offers no response)

Mommy: “Hey, Michael – I’m going to put these in your lunch. Do you like them?”

Michael: (still no response)

Mommy inserts a representative pretzel chip between Michael and the game screen, blocking his view: “Yes? No?”

Michael does not respond.

Mommy continues the forward motion of the pretzel chip toward Michael’s mouth. He unconsciously opens his mouth and accepts the chip, his eyes never wavering from the tiny screen.

Mommy: “Well?”

Michael gives no answer.

Daddy has had enough.

Daddy: “Michael! Your mother asked you a question. Please answer.”

Michael gives no answer.

Daddy: “Just say ‘Yes’ or ‘No’.”

Michael, finally: “Yes or no.”

Daddy glares at the back of Michael’s head.

Mommy: “Well, he did say just what you asked him to say.”

And another grey hair just made its debut on daddy’s head.

Oprah is Not My Friend

On Thursday, Michael and I happened to be watching the news while he was finishing up breakfast.

On comes a commercial for an upcoming Oprah show.

It shows a video recording of a little boy storming around a house in a screaming rage, while Oprah’s voice intones ominously: “…seven years old, he tried to kill his OWN MOTHERRRRRRRRR….

That’s all Michael needed to hear.

I had to spend the next hour or so inventing from whole cloth explanations as to why the little boy was angry, who he was, what happened to his mom, how he got better, what was wrong in his head, when it happened, and whether he’d some day show up on our doorstep screaming and wielding a knife.

Later that day, after school, I had to go through the explanations again. He brought it up to his mom, and I had to explain to her what the commercial was about, and how deeply those fifteen some odd seconds of airplay affected our son.

That night we prayed extra hard for happy thoughts and protection from evil.

Friday morning, Michael came into our room at 4:00 sniffling and weeping about a bad dream he had. He wasn’t tremendously coherent at that point, and we weren’t able to get out of him exactly what he’d dreamt about, but I knew it was likely born of what he’d seen and heard the day before.

He had a pretty good day Friday, but by the evening he was once again concerned about his mommy’s safety and about his own overwhelming emotions in general.

This morning, once again, he came into our room way too early, crying and snuffling about another bad dream, something concerning his mother and his classmates having to go away.

“I should ship Michael off to Oprah so she can soothe away his nightmares,” I said.

Anyone know her address?

Technically Angelic

We’re having breakfast. Michael is finishing up his Frosted Flakes, and hears his mother getting ready upstairs.

“Mommy!” he says excitedly.

“Yes, Michael. Your sainted mother is indeed going to be coming downstairs shortly.”

“Scagent?” He asks. “What’s ‘scagent’ mean?”

“No, no. I said ‘sainted’.”

“Oh. What’s that?”

“That means she’s wonderful, and you think she’s the best person in the whole world,” I explain.

“Oh.” He thinks about it for a minute. “Then you’re Satan too,” he says finally.

“At least I’m in there somewhere.”

Safe, Shmafe

It’s morning, and Michael is once again in mommy & daddy’s room making sure we don’t do anything crazy like sleep past 6:00 AM.

He’s chattering at his mom as she quietly puts together his outfit for the day, all the while giving ear to the morning news in hopes of hearing a positive weather report. I’m nearby, getting myself ready for the work day.

On the news, a story comes on about the dangers of illegal fireworks.

At the mere mention of fireworks, Michael’s attention is suddenly riveted to the television. The reporter describes the scenes we’re watching with an ominous tone, as mannequins are substituted for ignorant, idiotic pyrotechnics enthusiasts practicing highly unsafe techniques. The first one has his head blown clean off by a mortar shell. The second has his arm blasted into splinters by an M-80. The third has an eye shot out by a Roman candle. The message is very clear: illegal fireworks are extremely dangerous.

“See, Michael?” his mom says.

Michael pauses for just a moment, obviously still trying to absorb the gravity of the images he just saw.

“We… should… GET THOSE!” he says.

Gravity not absorbed.

Critters

Caught a mouse this morning. Humanely; I was able to release it into the wild later in the weeds near a pond some distance from our house. I’d heard this particular little guy Wednesday morning as I was making breakfast. He was scrabbling around under the stove, no doubt snacking on whatever little bits of food that had been inadvertently kicked underneath and missed by the vacuum.

Our lovely kitty cat, whom we’ve renamed “Fail”, sniffed around as I pulled the trap out, acting not unlike a state road construction supervisor: “Yeah, that’s the one. I knew he was there all along. I would have caught it myself, you know, but well, I’ve had a lot of napping to catch up on, and hairballs to hawk up and stuff.”

In a house full of kids, especially teenage girls, the option of a quick kill does not exist. So despite the myriad of “instant death” mouse traps at the local hardware store, I opted for the one that was designed for catch-and-release. A simple little device, really: bait at one end, opening at the other. Mouse walks in to get the bait, trap tips up, door shuts and locks. Voila.

I decided it would be neat to release said mouse into an old wastebasket so that we could see him before I let him go. Having read “The Mouse and the Motorcycle” fairly recently, I was confident that a wastebasket was a perfect place to keep a mouse awaiting transport to freedom.

Yeah… nobody told me how dang high those things can jump if they put their backs into it. First of all, this critter was HUGE – 8” from tip of nose to tip of tail. Second, he was very interested in not being in the wastebasket, despite the selection of nuts and grains I had deposited there for his enjoyment. Michael said I should have used cheese because all mice love cheese. Who started that myth, anyway?

I took the rodent-inhabited wastebasket outside quickly, in case he did actually make good on his attempts to leap out. Keying off of the energy level of the mouse, I hurried. And sensing my energy level, Michael screamed excitedly as did his sister who desperately wanted to get a picture of little Mr Mousy to send to her sisters, who would no doubt text back various sorts of delighted screams, coos and iconified mouse images. I’m sure the neighbors were impressed to see the fat guy in the orange Hawaiian shirt holding a wastebasket at arm’s length running into the street followed by two screaming kids.

Outside, in the back of the van, Sister S managed to find a makeshift lid and some duct tape, which I used to secure the top of the wastebasket. With his exit plan frustrated, the mouse quieted down.

And later, after dropping Michael off at school, I took little mousy to the pond at the bottom of the hill and let him scamper off into the weeds.

Goodbye, Mr. mouse. No more nocturnal nibbling in our house.

And as for you, Failcat, no wet kitty food for a week.

Grub Grousing

The part of each weekday morning that I dislike the most is, without question, assembling Michael’s lunch. I’ve mentioned this before.

Yesterday’s episode went like this:

Daddy: “Michael, what do you want for lunch?”

Michael: (no response whatsoever)

Daddy: “Sometime today, please.”

Mommy: “How about fish fingers?”

Michael: “Yeah, fish fingers. That sounds good.”

Daddy: “How many?”

Michael: “Five. Five is good.”

Daddy: “Five fish fingers it is.”

So I cooked them a bit to crisp them up, then sealed them in a travel container and packed them up next to another container filled with ketchup, and some cheez-its and grapes.

I figured he’d have a nice little lunch there, and I had successfully survived another morning of getting him ready for school.

Imagine my delight this morning when I went to find his lunchbox (I never know where it’s going to be left from one day to the next) and discovered all five fish fingers intact. Daddy was not pleased.

Daddy: “Michael! I’m not very happy with you! You didn’t eat those fish fingers at all!”

Michael: (no response whatsoever)

I did note that the cheez-its and grapes were gone. Well, he enjoyed that part. And most of the ketchup was gone too. So… he dipped the grapes and cheez-its in ketchup?

Hmmm.

Today he got slices of ham, grapes, pretzels and carrots. I put protein in his lunchbox, but I cannot force him to eat it. I can’t pack peanut butter, even though he loves that, because of the nut allergy there at his school. I can’t pack cheese, because he loathes it. Even when it’s being eaten by someone else, clear across the room. And I can’t just pack a baggie full of Cocoa Puffs because I’m sure someone would eventually report me to DCFS or something.

I can’t wait until next year, and the thought of public school hot lunch saving me from this task. Packing cash for lunch is easy.

Spare a Quarter?

I really need to buy myself a sense of humor.

The fact that my wife laughed at my irritation this morning is a clue upon which I ought to ruminate at length.

You see, I was in a rush to get out the door. This is my normal operating mode on any given weekday.

I knew Michael was up, as I practically tripped over him as he lay there on the stairs, enrobed in every blanket he owns, like a giant, pulsating parasite drawing nutrients out of the carpeting.

“Not a good place to be, sport,” I said, stepping over the multi-hued mass and continuing on my way. I heard him bump down each tread on his way to the landing. He crawled over to the chair in front of the computer to watch the screensaver as I prepared a simple breakfast for his mom and myself. She was on her way out as well, having an early doctor’s appointment.

“I’m going back upstairs, Michael,” I said, but he remained at the computer.

My wife and I dined in our room while watching the news.

“Is Michael up?” she asked me.

“Yes. He wanted to hang around downstairs and look at the computer. He’s probably shutting it down or something,” I said.

We finished our breakfast and I took the breakfast tray downstairs, passing Michael as he came up.

“I need to get you dressed, little man. Then you can have breakfast so we can get you to school,” I told him. He did not say a word.

In the kitchen, as I took the dishes off the tray, I heard the bedroom door shut.

This is not a good sign. When Michael gets into our bedroom, he thinks he can set himself up to watch his favorite channel, Sprout, without restriction of any kind. He knows the rule on weekdays is that he has to be dressed and fed and completely ready to go to school before he can even look at the TV.

I went upstairs to investigate, and our bedroom door was locked. I heard Michael moving just on the other side of the door, followed by his quick retreating footsteps.

“Michael! You unlock this door!” I tried the knob a few times for emphasis.

“I’m watching Sprout, daddy!” he said, gleefully. He needed only add “neener, neener, neener” to complete his taunt.

Seething, I went to fetch the door lock pin from its secret hiding place (in Michael’s room – shhh, don’t tell him), and after trying it, remembered that the door lock to mommy & daddy’s bedroom doesn’t use that kind of lock. I’d need to go all the way to the garage to get the jeweler’s screwdrivers to open it.

I shouted again through the door: “Michael! Open this door!”

This time he answered, and unlocked it. I think he knew he wouldn’t ultimately win this battle.

I immediately turned off the TV.

“Get downstairs now, mister. No TV for you at all this morning,” I said.

From the bathroom I heard my wife say “I told you you’d get in trouble, Michael.”

She’d been in there the whole time.

It was only later when I explained that Michael had locked the door that she laughed.

I’m glad she found it humorous.

I’d hate to think my irritation was for no good purpose.

Back To The Grind

Vacation is officially over. It’s time to head back to work, school and other standard occupations.

After we’ve fully enjoyed the holidays, we are curtly shoved out into the dark, dour epoch that stretches on until the next official holiday. We must endure a cold, bleak existence until February, when we come skidding up to Valentine’s Day and collapse on its doorstep, thankful for an excuse to celebrate something.

That, and if the stores are any indication, we also spend this time packing stuff up in Rubbermaid containers and weighing ourselves.

Another rainy day in Portland – a redundancy if ever there was one – and it started with a bit of disagreement as to whether Sister S had school or not. The school district calendar didn’t state emphatically that there was school, but there wasn’t any indication that there wasn’t school. We decided to drive her there, thus if there wasn’t school we could just turn around and drive home.

There was. She wasn’t pleased.

As I pulled back onto the road amidst lines of buses and throngs of parents dropping their kids off, I remembered how much I dislike this particular stretch of road – especially in the dark, and even more so in the rain. It’s hard to see anything at all unless it’s emitting its own source of light, with the headlights stabbing the eyes and obliterating most objects, and the rain obscuring everything else. While looking one direction and just about ready to turn, I suddenly caught sight of a group of morose-looking teenagers shuffling along the sidewalk. I was glad they weren’t shuffling along in front of my car as I turned, or I would have squashed every one of them.

It’s the clothes they wear these days. Don’t get me wrong, I know every generation of teens clings to its own fashion code and ours was no better… except that our was visible. The goth/emo trend today sports dark colors which renders the wearer, as a pedestrian, nearly invisible. Say what you will about the garish, loud, tie-dyed fashion sense of the 1970’s, but you have to give it this: you couldn’t help but notice it.

I would wager big money that there is a direct correlation to fashion trends and pedestrian versus automobile accidents.

Michael of course went back to his school today, and was entirely ambivalent about it, to the point of being blasé. He was excited about the fact that his mom would be picking him up extra early today, to take him along with his Cousin A to the train station. Cousin A had been staying with us throughout the holiday season, and Michael greatly enjoyed having another boy in the house to help even the odds. His mom and I enjoyed having Cousin A in the house because he’s polite, helpful and grateful – three traits we hope will rub off on our kids.

So with Cousin A heading home, the kids going back to school and me going back to work, it’s life as usual again.

Not much to say about it other than it’s life, and I really can’t complain. I’m thankful we have a roof over our heads, food in the cupboard, solid employment and kids who get along well for the most part.

Wishing you all the best in 2010.

You Did What, Exactly?

I’m sitting on the couch, trying to pretend I’m not awake yet.

Michael suddenly runs to the bathroom to grab a wet wipe, and quickly returns and starts scrubbing down his little plastic slide.

“Don’t worry, daddy. I’ll get the germs off.”

“What?”

“It’s on the slide, right there,” he points to a black smudge at the end of the slide.

“What is that?”

“It’s okay, daddy. I’m cleaning it off,” he says brightly.

“But what is it?”

“Well…. it’s black stuff from the ink.”

“Ink?”

“Yes, ink. From the paint.”

“What paint?”

“Well…. it’s from the floor.”

“What ink? What paint? Where?” Now I am alarmed, and can already see I’ve got a delightful morning in store.

“Uh… well, it was… I don’t know.”

“Yes you do. Tell me what happened,” I say, getting up to address him and follow him to the origin of the issue.

“Uh, it was paint from the pen,” he said, walking toward the table.

“What pen?”

“It was here,” he says, pointing at the floor by the closet.

“I don’t see a pen. Where is the paint?”

“I don’t remember.”

“When did you do this?”

“Well, I was drawing on the slide, and I cleaned it off.”

“I know that part. Where is this pen? What paint did you use?”

“It was this,” he says, and picks up a colored pencil from the table.

“You drew on the slide with this?”

He nods, sheepishly.

“Is this okay to do?”

He shakes his head.

“Drawing is to be done on paper, with your mommy or daddy watching. Understand?”

He nods again.

“Okay. Don’t draw on stuff again!”

If I allowed myself to do so, I could imagine all sorts of other things that he might have drawn on this morning during the 30 minutes he was out of his room while his mom and I were frantically trying to wrap presents in privacy. And I could probably also imagine what he really might have gotten into that would have left a dark smudge, and why he would have assumed it had germs.

I could do that… but I won’t.

This is one of those situations where you avert your eyes and walk away whistling.